Child on child Abuse

All of our staff area aware that children can abuse other children - we refer to this as child on child abuse. This can happen inside or outside of our setting and online. If parents or children have any concerns regarding child on child abuse they should contact the school’s DSL (Ms Cooke or Ms Datta) who will always respond and help.

Child on child abuse is defined as but may not be limited to:

  • bullying (including cyberbullying, prejudice-based and discriminatory bullying)
  • physical abuse (this may include an element of online which facilitates, threatens and/ or encourages physical abuse)
  • sexual violence (this may include an online element which facilitates, threatens and/ or encourages sexual violence)
  • sexual harassment, such as sexual comments, remarks, jokes and online sexual harassment which may be stand alone or part of a broader pattern of abuse
  • causing someone to engage in sexual activity without consent
  • consensual and non-consensual sharing of nudes and semi-nude images and/ or videos (also known as sexting or youth produced sexual imagery)
  • up-skirting which typically involves taking a picture under a person's clothing without them knowing
  • initiation or hazing type violence and rituals (this includes activities involving harassment, abuse or humiliation as a way of initiating a person into a group and may include an online element)

All of our staff are trained in our policy and procedures with regard to child on child abuse and the important role they have to play in preventing it and responding where they believe a child may be at risk from it.

All of our staff are expected to challenge inappropriate behaviours between children. Downplaying certain behaviours, for example dismissing sexual harassment as just 'banter', 'just having a laugh' or 'part of growing up' can lead to a culture of unacceptable behaviours, an unsafe environment for children and in worst case scenarios a culture that normalises abuse leading to children accepting it as normal and not coming forward to report it and so this behaviour will always be challenged.